What makes a person brave? When I ask this question, I’m not referring to US Military brave or firemen brave or even risk-your-life-and-tackle-criminal-for-strangers brave….. These men and women are obvious heroes who sacrifice everything for the ones they love and those they don’t even know exist. They are beyond selfless and possess an inner strength and perspective of life that many do not, including myself.
I’m talking the everyday bravery and courage that is consistently shown by people we work with, volunteer next to, and make small talk with while our children are at the practice of the activity of their choice. Bravery shown by those who don’t see it in themselves.
I’m referring to the mamas who don’t recognize such greatness within themselves. The ones who have this unbreakable spirit and seem to glide through the toughest of circumstances with a distinctive grace and dignity. The mamas who are working several jobs to make ends meet, the ones who go from work to school only to stay up later than they should to make sure everyone is prepared for the next day. The mamas who endure the worst of circumstances, the mamas going through a divorce or separation, the ones who’ve lost their jobs or husbands. The women who are wives, mothers, career women, and homemakers are the brave, confident, strong, and resilient ones.
These mamas [you and I] are brave.
David going up against Goliath was brave. But, so was Ruth choosing to stay with her mother in law in a foreign land with no source of income. She had no means to take care of herself or Naomi but chose to believe that modesty & purity were her best options when there were definitely “others” out there, if you know what I mean. Bravery is simply courage in action. It takes courage to raise your children and advocate for them when all we have is our mommy instincts telling us something isn’t right. It takes courage to raise your child/children alone. It takes a certain boldness to face terrifying circumstances and not back down or break down when your strength is required. It’s our inner strength that allows us to smile and create a peaceful environment when our babies need comfort and solace.
And, mamas, this is the thing.
While the sacrificing and giving that we do is second nature…. While it comes naturally and we do it without even thinking; it’s easy to fool ourselves into believing that the natural instincts to provide for our child is not a big deal. It’s easy to minimize the enormous efforts we put forth and say that we’re “just doing what needs to be done” without realizing the vastness of what we do.
Y’all. We are mothers – we partner with God in creating and maintaining life. There is nothing minimal about what we do and how we do it.
Mama. You are brave. And, don’t ever forget it.
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November 16, 2015 at 7:51 AM
I often minimize my efforts as a mother because, yes, it has to be done! A friend of mine sent me an article that talked about how we’re laying a foundation for our kids in the 0-5 years with them. It’s labor intensive, no one can really admire it, takes a lot of work, but once those years are over, we get to see the fruit of our labor. We realize even more that it was all worth it, the extra moment to snuggle with them, getting out of our own frustration with their behavior to seek to understand instead of trying to discipline immediately. It takes a lot of work and this is true for those who are not mothers yet. Maybe you are mentoring a child or even a youth, one day you will see that all the prayers, the effort, the difficult conversations were all worth it. We are Brave! Let’s not ever forget! Thank you Alaina!
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